Relationship Truths

1. Love is important...(Please find what the manufacturer says love is)
2. Create a Vision...Where there's no Vision, the people perish. This is not just for Corporations. It applies to relationships also.
3. Decide the rules of engagement.
4. Determine how you want this relationship to add to you as a person. How do you intend to develop? What kind of person do you want to become in the next one year relating with this person.
5. Do you know that a relationship is an outward reflection of the way you see yourself on the inside?
6. Relationships starts from the Self Stand point. You are first in a relationship with yourself before you are in a relationship with anyone else. It is what you find about you that should determine what kind of person you will "fall in love with"
7. Be sure your mate can make deep commitments ( You don't want someone who says stuff like this " Everyone is human, we all make mistakes. I won't tell you that I will not cheat on you, cause I am Human, but I can assure you that I will love you always" This is stupid. You want a person who makes a strong commitment to you and does not make excuses for mistakes yet to be made...meaning he plans to make mistakes.
8. Love starts is God and God is Love. Forget about what anyone says to you. Any counsel that you get outside of this is in the flesh....Your relationship should be hinged around God.
9. At the end of the day, Good Looks, Status, Economic Power will not matter to a relationship. What matters most is that you lay hold on some of these things shared in 1-8.
10. Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Lean not (do not put the weight of your decisions) on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your path....Special Focus on "Don't put the weight of your decisions on your own understanding. On what you think relationships should look like or on what your friends say it should be like. It will fail.
11. Why should you talk about a concept when you have not researched or studied about it? Will you allow just any man treat you for malaria if they have not gone to medical school? Why should you talk about LOVE when you have never taken the time to research about it?
12. Love is not feelings. You owe yourself to find out what LOVE means. You can only know what love truly is when you know the author of the concept itself. One of the reasons why people run into trouble is that they try to enjoy something God initiated, using HUMAN strategies. How does that work? Did you ever know anything about LOVE? Do you know who invented the concept? Why do you claim to feel something you know nothing about? Isn't is scary to think you have one thing, only to discover when the light comes on that it was something completely different you had?
13. Love is not looks... although that can be a major attraction but it does not end there.
14. Sweetie your heart is precious to God. Please darling Find Gods truth before you make a commitment to that person.